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Together, alone
29 December 2005
by Maude Froberg in Phuket, Thailand
“Before and after; that is the only division there is.

All our everyday waiting, somebody is late, all our anxiety. What could have happened, and then it happens.

The giant wave arrives. All turns weightless, silent.

All that is left is the beggaring distance between before it happened and when it has happened."


As over 10,500 participants – many survivors and relatives of the dead and missing – had gathered on the sandy beach of Bang Niang in the Phang-Nga province of Thailand to commemorate the victims of the country's most destructive disaster, the reflection of the Swedish poet Bodil Malmsten clearly mapped out the burdensome road for those affected: the before and the after.

Nonetheless, in this remembrance, one of many taking place along the Andaman coast, death did not overshadow this day. Instead it was marked by courage, generosity and love, as the beaches were awash with candle lights and the sky lit up with over 5,000 floating lanterns - each one representing a loved one lost.

On Bang Niang Beach a commemoration service was held followed by one minute's silence. Then, a poem of hope was read out by Tilly Smith, an 11-year British schoolgirl who warned others about the approaching tsunami, and Patiwat Komkla, also a young survivor who clung to a coconut palm trunk more than a kilometre off the coast for two days and one night without food or water, before a navy rescue team spotted him from a helicopter.

Further up the beach, a private Swedish memorial service attended by over 400 people had to be delayed due to heavy rain. However, one by one, people decided to defy the elements and determinedly took their places in front of the scene.

Lennart Koskinen, one of those speaking at the commemoration, put into words the thoughts of many: “Even the sky shed its tears today,” he said.

Staff from the Swedish Red Cross were on duty from early morning, in case anybody needed a helping hand or someone to talk to, a need which has become evident as the families are returning to the disasters area. Altogether, 248 visits to the areas where so many perished, sometimes with as many as have taken place with the assistance from the Swedish Red Cross.

As remembering is a vital part of the tsunami commemoration, so is learning for the future.

On the surface, 25 December was one of those ordinary beautiful days on the sunny Patong Beach in Phuket, a perfect day for a rest under the umbrellas.

All of the sudden, a boat capsizes out in the bay and within seconds, the people on board find themselves in the deep water. As they are screaming for help, a mobile sea rescue team quickly mobilizes sets course for the scene of the accident.

One of the victims, an unconscious man, is hurried to shore and given on-the-spot first aid as foreign tourists watch anxiously from nearby.

“Excuse me, it is a drill, isn't?” asks one man. Behind him, three women have gotten up from their chairs, ready to offer assistance as another mobile team of rescuers hurries by with more victims. “What is going on?” they wonder.

Even Dr Soottiporn Chittmittrapap from the Thai Red Cross can sense the heightened awareness of the crowds on the beach.

“We have been informing people about this rescue drill, but obviously not everybody has understood,” he says. “After all, people are on holiday.”

Dr Chittmittrapap is responsible for what might look worrying, but is essential for the sea rescuers: first aid training.

“Earlier, first aid has not been included in the training, but on our initiative, it is now being introduced. When lives are in danger, it is a race against time. Therefore, knowledge of first aid is essential. In addition, training in first aid is community based, which means that everybody can learn.”

In the near future, the Thai Red Cross will, with the support of the Norwegian and Finnish Red Cross, take on the role of introducing first aid in a national emergency preparedness programme.

Besides sea rescue and first aid, 30 early warning towers have been placed along the Andaman coast line, while another 40 are yet to be erected. Through these towers, which are run by the National Disaster Warning Center, information about earthquakes, tsunamis storms, floods, landslides, wildfires and pollution can, step by step, be integrated with the satellite early warning system which is monitored by 40 people around the clock.

As the Thai people continue to rebuild their lives, their grief and loss still unite them with foreign visitors who come to the area to commemorate their own lost loved ones. One Swedish visitor calmly sits down on the beach and places her candle in the sand, quietly contemplating the sea.

Further down the beach, she sees a Thai woman who is also placing a candle in the sand, and silently looking at the sea. Unexpectedly, the Thai woman glances back, then points at the candle in front of her, then at the sea, then spreads her hands in front of her as if to say: “I lost a loved one out there. What happened to you?”

The visitor in turn points at her candle, then at the sea and softly nods, to say: “Yes, me too. I have lost a loved one out there.”

The Thai woman nods and turn towards the sea. They quietly sit there, each of them wrapped in her sorrow and grief. Together but alone.
More than 5,000 floating lanterns were glowing in the dark evening sky as relatives honoured their dead and missing in the tsunami in Thailand. (p13682)
More than 5,000 floating lanterns were glowing in the dark evening sky as relatives honoured their dead and missing in the tsunami in Thailand. (p13682)

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Alida, 11, Hanna, 12, and Felicia, 13, all from Sweden, pay tribute to their loved ones by putting their names in a big heart written in the sand. (p13681)
Alida, 11, Hanna, 12, and Felicia, 13, all from Sweden, pay tribute to their loved ones by putting their names in a big heart written in the sand. (p13681)
From left, Dr Soottiporn Chittmittrapap, Director of first aid training, and Phrannatorn Chavoenkul, Project Manager from the Thai Red Cross Society. (p13680)
From left, Dr Soottiporn Chittmittrapap, Director of first aid training, and Phrannatorn Chavoenkul, Project Manager from the Thai Red Cross Society. (p13680)